Greetings, ERIC:
I am going to be bluntly honest with you. Kind, I hope, but bluntly honest. I am enjoying the UB. I find it fascinating. HOWEVER, and that is the key word, I have the same problem you do. I am a Traditional Observant Jew.
Now, if you're not a Jew, you may not get that. So, let me break it down for you. There are 15 million Jews in the world. About half of us are non-religious. The other half are religious, 80% of those being Orthodox, and the remainder being Conservative or Reform. Within the Orthodox community you get everything from Chasidim to Heredim to Modern Orthodox. Those are just three different ways of being Orthodox. If I tried to break that down, we'd be here all night.
Now, in my city, I attend a Synagogue on Friday night that is Reform, and on Saturday either Orthodox or Conservative. My personal Prayers are either out of an Orthodox or Reform book, depending on what I have time for (Orthodox is much longer).
So I don't tell people that I am "Orthodox" or "Conservative". Instead I say that I am Traditional and Observant.
Now, what is the point of all that? Well, ultimately, it comes down to this: Judaism is either a Divinely Revealed Religion or it is not. If it is not, then fine. But if it is, then it makes certain Truth Claims for itself. And those Truth Claims are incompatible with the claims that other religions make. For example: Either Jesus is the Messiah or he is not. He can't be both. Either Mohammed is a Prophet or he is not. He can't be both. It does us all a disservice to claim that we are all right. We might all be wrong, but we can't all be right. If Judaism is right, then Jesus is NOT the Messiah. If Christianity is right, then he is the Messiah, and we are full of crap.
So, while I find the UB interesting, and definitely worth reading, I can only accept the parts of it that are compatible with Judaism. When it diverges from Judaism, then I must respectfully part ways with the book. Now, that doesn't mean that I have to be nasty. My wife is a Lutheran. I am not nasty to her about our differences. We have agreed to disagree about things, and we each do our own thing. We are not having children, so that is no problem.
But ultimately, yes, you do have to choose. If you choose the UB, that is certainly your right and prerogative, and I respect you for that. If you choose Shinto, hey, go for it. But choose. You can't sit on the fence. You have to ultimately make a choice. For me, Judaism is Divinely Revealed, and that is where I draw the line in the sand.
With respect, Ya'akov
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